With Thanksgiving only a day away, it’s time for all of us be grateful for the things that make each and every day so amazing. If you’re reading this, there’s a good chance you have a spouse or significant other (or you will one day). There’s also a good chance that along the way, you both have stopped doing the little things to remind one another how you really feel.
Here’s a little fun fact about people: when someone feels unappreciated, they are less likely to go out of their way to do meaningful things for their spouse. Vice versa: when they feel appreciated for their efforts, they will keep doing more and more to grow that appreciation.
Are you picturing your relationship right now? No worries! We’ve come up with the cutest and easiest ways to remind your spouse just how lucky you are to have them in your life.
- Breakfast in Bed. It’s not just true for guys… the way to anyone’s heart is through their stomach. Besides, who wouldn’t love to wake up to their favorite breakfast in the comfort of their sheets? Exactly.
- Leave a Love Note. Even a short “I love you” will do. Simply leave the note in a place where they will find it throughout their day, and watch as their day instantly becomes better.
- Shoot Them an Email at Work. We’re all used to “I love you” text messages and, let’s face it, there’s nothing romantic about texting. Sending an email shows that you’re going out of your way, and will add an element of surprise. Be sure to mention that you were just thinking of them and wanted to say how much they mean to you. You’ll be sure to get a sweet email back!
- Give a Compliment. People rarely give sincere compliments anymore… Especially when it comes to the people we spend most of our time with. Tomorrow morning, mention how great her hair looks or how his shirt makes his muscles look big. They’ll feel the glow of the compliment all day, you’ll feel extra caring, and both of your days will be made.
- Plan a Date Night (on your own). Sometimes we forget that dates are for spending quality time together, not fighting about which restaurant to go to or who’s paying. One night, choose the restaurant, plan the details, and pay for the meal. When you aren’t constantly questioning your next move, you’ll be able to laugh and have fun together like it was the first time.
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