Asking Her Parents Permission

Guys you may find it old fashion but it’s still proper etiquette to ask your girlfriend’s father/parents for her hand in marriage. I’ve never heard a girl complain that her fiancé asked her parents permission, only when he did not.  It may not be the most comfortable or natural conversation you’ve had with them but it needs to happen. Nowadays I would ask both her parents.

The point of asking permission is to show your good intentions, how much you adore their daughter, and to illustrate you’re appreciation for raising such an incredible person. If you were in their shoes, I’m sure you would love to hear those things too.

We recognize it’s a heavy question to ask her parents. Therefore if you’re nervous, it’s always good to prep yourself and them. Take them out to dinner or plan a time to talk with them privately at their house. This way they know what’s coming, and hopefully they’ll just be so excited, the conversation will be quick and easy.

You can also ease into the conversation with her mom and/or sister by asking for their opinions on the engagement ring. We definitely encourage guys to talk to his girlfriend’s female family members; most of the time they know the style or diamond cut your gal dreams about. Not only does it ease your way into asking for their permission, but you’ll earn brownie points with her mom for including her in this special occasion.

Bottom line, ask her parents for permission to marry their daughter. Ladies, if your friend or brother are popping the question soon, make sure to pass this on!

Love,