Making Time For Fun

Making Time For Fun

Mondays for Men: Making Time For Fun

Did you know that having more fun actually makes you a more fun person? Don’t get so caught up in wanting a girlfriend that you forget to do the things you enjoy. Keeping up with your interests and hobbies, and creating new ones, is a great way to relax, stay happy, and become a more interesting, fun person.

People who engage in a lot of fun and interesting activities just seem to be more confident and attractive people. The more interests you have the more you have to talk about with your date. Don’t worry if you have hobbies that your girlfriend doesn’t take part in. If you enjoy activities outside of your relationship and encourage your girlfriend to do the same, you will have great conversations about the things you do.

Sometimes your girlfriend might even start to enjoy a hobby you love and vice versa and then you can plan to do the things you love together.

The important thing is to not allow yourself to get stuck in a rut. Think about when you met your girlfriend. You had many interests and activities you participated in right? Having a relationship doesn’t mean you give up what you love to do, it should mean having someone you can share those interests and activities with.

When you talk about the things that you love to do, you exude an energy and excitement that is attractive. Don’t give that up by allowing routine to set in. Too often couples get caught up in the dinner and a movie routine, or after a while, they just sit at home week after week with a movie rental.

It takes a conscious effort to keep your relationship fun and exciting. One couple I know takes turns planning their weekly date night. One week the girl plans the night out, the next one the guy plans. This way there is an element of surprise, they each put more effort into planning their date nights and keeping that enthusiasm for their time with one another.

Your romantic relationship is one of the best parts of life. Keep it that way by always giving the energy and attention to the fun things you enjoy doing.

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