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What Do You Say When You Propose? – An Expert Guide

So much pressure rides on making sure this moment is perfect. You have the ring, you have a date in mind, but what are you supposed to say? As an expert proposal planner, I have talked so many clients through this exact topic. You might be surprised at how easy it can really be! Start…

Published: November 15, 2024

So much pressure rides on making sure this moment is perfect. You have the ring, you have a date in mind, but what are you supposed to say? As an expert proposal planner, I have talked so many clients through this exact topic. You might be surprised at how easy it can really be!

Start with the basics

Start by listing off as many things that come to mind when you think of the following:
1. What do you love about your partner?
2. What are some of your favorite memories you have shared during your relationship?
3. Tell the story about how you knew your partner was the one.

These three points make for an amazing speech, BUT if you are looking to add even more to your words, keep scrolling to grab some more ideas!

New York Penthouse Proposal The Yes Girls

Tell them how they have changed your life

One of the most important things about your love story is how you have reached this beautiful milestone. What about your partner and relationship has made you a better person? Let them know alllll of the things – not only will this add to the moment but will also make your partner feel so incredibly loved and appreciated on this day and forever!

California Proposal The Yes Girls

Talk about your future

This is about to be the most important moment of your life! Marrying your forever love begins a new chapter in your story bringing so many new memories. What are some things you have dreamt of together for your shared future? Think about mentioning some places you want to travel to together, a family, building a home, or whatever you think will add to the moment.

New York Rooftop Proposal The Yes Girls

End it with the most important part

Don’t forget to say the most important four words “will you marry me?”

With nerves flying high, make sure you don’t forget to end your thoughtful speech here!

No matter what, you’ll do great!

At the end of the day, you’re proposing to the person who knows you better than anyone and loves you more deeply than words can express. When the moment comes, they’ll be over the moon with excitement and joy. No matter how you phrase it, the proposal will be absolutely beautiful—because it’s coming straight from your heart. 

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