Enneagram Three – The Achiever. Three’s main source of love is to feel valuable. Because they want others to see them as valuable, they tend to be very goal oriented, driven and successful. This can mean beautiful things for a partner!
A Quote from the Enneagram Institute explains, “They are hard workers, always looking for a way to improve their station in life and to share these benefits with their loved ones and friends. Threes also tend to be sociable and to enjoy the company of others. They have the ability to charm others and present themselves in a favorable, attractive light—even to their spouse or close friends. Some Threes are less sociable and more concerned with business matters and with gaining financial security, but they too, want both themselves and their relationship to be admirable and outstanding in some way. They may be known for their closeness or personal devotion, or the longevity of the relationship itself.”
What beautiful news! Lets break is down a bit further –
- Three’s are hard workers. They are wanting to bring value and success to a relationship so they are open to new/different ways of doing so.
- Any success and benefits a three creates within their lives, they are happy to share in that success with their partner. This could mean wealth, perks, etc.
- Three’s tend to be social, creating a happy and loving environment for a partner.
- Three’s are charming and able to put their best selves forward in a relationship and friendship.
- Three’s tend to be devoted in multiple capacities within a relationship – whether is be financial security, companionship, etc. At they end of the day, they want their relationship to be admirable.
Hooray Enneagram Three’s!