No matter where you me your significant other, you may be ready to take the next step and propose. However, it can be challenging to figure out the perfect proposal, especially when you see over-the-top methods on social media and television. Luckily, there are a few ways to plan your proposal.
Picking the Perfect Ring
Of course, the engagement ring is one of the most important aspects of a successful proposal since your significant other will be wearing it for a long time to come. If you will be surprising them with the style, consider what their current style is. You could get information from jewelers for 1 carat engagement rings or online sources. Rings can be expensive, but it can be worthwhile to splurge since this is for the love of your life. Shop around and look for sales but don’t go with something that is too cheap. You have the option of taking out a personal loan from a private lender to cover some or all of the cost. This is a great option when you need to get a ring sooner than you would be able to save up for it.
Making it Personal
Once you have a ring on hand, it is time to plan out your proposal. There are many places to learn about creative marriage proposal ideas but do not just cut and paste one and claim it as your own. Think about what your partner might enjoy, whether it’s something intimate, a grander gesture, or something in between. No matter the budget, make sure the spot is beautiful and meaningful to both of you. It could be the space you first met, or even your home, decorated with candles. You can find ideas online, but the proposal should not feel like something anyone could have done – customize it to your significant other.
Turning to a Pro
While you know your loved one the best, you could make it a bit more special by getting some outside help. There are even companies that will plan out the logistics for you and work with vendors, such as photographers or even videographers. It might cost a bit of money, but it can also lessen engagement anxiety and make the proposal a lot more stress-free for you. This can also help you be at your best when you pop the question. Consider whether you want to have a photographer take pictures of the actual moment or simply stage it later on. Think about what your significant other would prefer, as some may consider a proposal a private moment and others may cherish photos.
Preparing Your Speech
You do not need to write a full speech, but you should spend a bit of time writing down the things you would like to say. Getting everything out on paper can help you figure out where you want to go when asking the question. It’s a good idea to speak about the things you love about your partner or why you are in love with them and want to spend the rest of your life with them. The important thing is to be and sound genuine, making them feel loved. You don’t have to plan an elaborate speech if it’s not your thing or would embarrass your significant other.